I Remember When

 

I remember when life seemed to move at the pace of a summer breeze. In the 1960’s, five cents could buy an ice-cold Coke, and an empty afternoon was all we needed for adventure. We played tic-tac-toe on scraps of paper, wore the grass thin with hide-and-seek, stumbled through blind man’s bluff, and hopped from square to square on chalk-drawn hopscotch.  We laughed until the streetlights came on, and somehow, that was enough.

Then came the late ’60s, and childhood gave way to horsepower and chrome. Pontiac GTOs, Mustangs, Camaros, and Chevelles lined the parking lots. They drank gas at eight miles per gallon, but no one cared. Gas was barely 30 cents a gallon, and freedom was measured by the miles ahead.

Friday nights belonged to high school football beneath bright stadium lights. Saturdays meant sock hops, drive-in diners, drive-in movies, hot dogs wrapped in paper, crispy onion rings, and cherry Cokes shared through two straws. Those were the days when forever seemed just around the corner.

But adulthood has a way of arriving without asking permission.

A place called Vietnam suddenly became part of everyday conversation. Young men traded letter jackets for uniforms. Some came home carrying invisible burdens and too many never came home at all. College dreams, student deferments, carefully planned futures—all could disappear in four short years.

Life marched on anyway.

 College brought Pabst Blue Ribbon, Budweiser, and bowls of hunch punch filled weekends, offering young adults the illusion that tomorrow would somehow take care of itself. We believed we had all the time in the world.

Then came marriage. We promised “till death do us part,” never imagining that even forever could sometimes have an expiration date.

Fatherhood changed everything.

The moment I held my daughter, my dreams became less about me and more about her. Responsibility became purpose. Work became necessity. Careers offered security, but they quietly stole pieces of life that could never be reclaimed. First steps I barely saw. Birthdays missed because of business trips. Vacations shortened by deadlines. Precious moments traded for promotions and paychecks.

I remember when.

Now, in the twilight of my life, I sit quietly with memories that remain as vivid as the day they were made. The fears that once kept me awake. The joys that made my heart soar. The unexpected turns I never could have planned. The victories that seemed enormous and the failures that taught me who I was.

An ordinary life, somehow, became extraordinary. 

I’ve learned that life isn’t measured by the money we earned, the cars we drove, or the titles we carried. It’s measured by the hands we held, the people we loved, the tears we wiped away, and the memories that refuse to fade.

As I close my eyes, I can still hear the cheers from those Friday night football games, the rumble of a GTO pulling away from a drive-in, the laughter of children playing until dusk, and the tiny footsteps of my little girl running into my arms.

Those moments never really left.

They simply became…

“I remember when.”

Let Freedom Ring

 

Even at four years old, Troy began to realize what the flag stood for.  It represented his freedom! Troy was born on January 11, 1925, the youngest of four children. Raised in poverty, he learned early the values of hard work, faith in God, and love of country. When he was fourteen, he defended his mother from his abusive father and sent him away for good. From then on, Troy and his siblings worked together to help support their family, never seeing themselves as victims, but as people determined to build a better life.

Through delivering groceries, collecting bottles, and doing whatever work he could find, Troy discovered that success comes through perseverance. America did not promise an easy life. It offered something greater. The freedom to earn one through hard work and determination.

At just seventeen, with his mother’s permission, Troy enlisted in the U.S. Army during World War II. He fought in New Guinea and the Philippines, took part in multiple beach assaults, and earned five military decorations, including two Bronze Stars and a Silver Star. He learned firsthand that freedom is never free. It is preserved by the courage and sacrifice of those willing to defend it.

Returning home, Troy found that his mother had passed away. Despite hardship and loss, he never pitied himself. Instead, he remained grateful for the opportunities America provided. Until his death on July 11, 2012, he stood proudly whenever the flag was raised and the National Anthem was played. He believed that the greatest gift this nation offered was not wealth or comfort, but freedom for every person to pursue their own destiny.

Troy was my father, my hero, and my friend.  He taught me to love this country and what it stood for.  He taught me the simple ideal, for which he fought for his entire life and for which this Republic represents.  Our Freedom!